Tactile Communication Tips for Deafblind Clients

I’m looking for best practices when it comes to tactile communication with Deafblind clients — recently, I’ve found myself needing more tools, especially during complex conversations. If anyone has resources or strategies that have worked for you, I’d love to hear about them.

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I totally get where you’re coming from — tactile communication can be tricky sometimes. What’s helped me is using a textured object like a soft plush toy during conversations. It gives a clear signal on what’s being discussed, especially if you’re navigating complex topics. Have you tried that yet?

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One thing I’ve found helpful is using consistent touch signals for specific topics. For instance, a light tap on the shoulder could mean you want to discuss something serious, while a gentle squeeze can indicate something lighter. @tmoore71, have you tried establishing any specific signals?

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